Let it Marinate!

Are you in a relationship?

Yes honey, Let it marinate. I’m not talking about over night either. I’m saying give that relationship time!  Allow your hearts to become tender and flavorful for each other. It’s not a secret that relationships rely heavily on communication and forgiveness; but those qualities take time to master, so don’t rush the process.

I once believed that if I was in a relationship for a year then it would be a GREAT idea to get married. Boy, was I WRONG! After about three months, I could tell you all of my beaux’s strengths but it wasn’t until about a year that I could identify the true weaknesses.

I encourage you to always opt for a slow cooker relationship rather than a microwaved relationship. Learning and growing together over time creates a strong bond…so simmer down and cook it slowly.

Anyone can find a microwave relationship, it starts fast and ends fast. It’s not as tasty or beneficial,so take your time. There is no rush!  Your biological clock is not ticking and be HEALED of that baby fever in the name of Jesus! Hehe!

Strong relationships are built on a strong foundation

That foundation  is God, honey! The male and female are both imperfect but must  submit to God and learn to work together. Let’s be honest here, EVERYONE has strengths and weaknesses! It’s your job to admire and embrace the strengths but work through the weaknesses. It’s not easy but it allows you to grow as a couple. Allowing your relationship to marinate, creates a rich and flavorful bond. Don't be fooled, REAL LOVE takes TIME!  

There is beauty in the process, don’t rush it, enjoy it.

Stop trying to rush down the aisle and take time to  get to know them; people can put up a good front for a year. But, time will help reveal the truth of their character.

If you don't take your time now, you'll mess around, get married and wake up to a stranger, a liar, a cheater, a thief or worse...someone you actually hate.